Sidewinder,
"The Yellow" is the Yellow airgun forum and they have a classified sales forum too. There are multiple forums that are run there, and I find it to be a well moderated place with lots of good people and information, much like here. You have to register there to, and they strictly enforce their rules so do read them. The main forum is at
http://www.network54.com/Forum/79537/ and the classifieds are at
http://www.network54.com/Forum/79574 Do be warned that if you go there, you might end up expanding your interest in this new hobby into other more expensive realms . . .
The reason that shops won't fill or test a CF tank past 15 years is that they are governed by the DOT regulations and can't do so. If you know somebody at one, you could probably get them to run a test on a tank and verbally tell you how it does, but if you are not friends with them and have a clear understanding of what you want done up front they will drill a hole in it straight out to cover themselves (that is what they do to failed or expired tanks).
Now, while no test facility is likely to be willing to do a hydro on a CF tank in its last year of life, I have heard that most will do it if there is at least a year left on the tank. That would give me a good bit of peace of mind and I intend to try that with mine before I get to that point.